Impact of environment upon gender identity and sexual orientation: A lesson for parents of children with intersex or gender confusion

Peter A. Lee, Christopher P. Houk

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Abstract

Two histories of physically normal men with persistent gender issues highlight the major impact played by parental input on the sexual and gender development of children. Both men had been subjected to firm, harsh behavior modification by their parents, particularly their mothers, during childhood in response to effeminate behavior. While both men continue to manifest major gender/sexual issues as adults, their outcomes have been dramatically different. The first man takes female hormones and denies any satisfaction from his sexuality. This individual remains convinced that he has female internal sexual organs and monthly internal menstrual bleeding. Although he has a career, he has become alienated from his family and is a social cripple. The second man has a successful career, lives a heterosexual life with his children and wife of 20 years and is involved in his community. He is visually attracted to men and remains obsessed with male pornography. This individual credits his mother with directing him toward a successful heterosexual life, which he feels has prevented the emotional burden of an active homosexual life. These two cases illustrate the tremendous influence played by environment and parental input on the sexual perspectives of developing children.

Original languageEnglish (US)
Pages (from-to)625-630
Number of pages6
JournalJournal of Pediatric Endocrinology and Metabolism
Volume18
Issue number7
DOIs
StatePublished - Jan 1 2005
Externally publishedYes

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Confusion
Sexual Behavior
Parents
Heterosexuality
Interpersonal Relations
Mothers
Erotica
Sexual Development
Behavior Therapy
Sexuality
Spouses
Hormones
Hemorrhage

Keywords

  • Gender identity
  • Parental influence
  • Sexual orientation

ASJC Scopus subject areas

  • Pediatrics, Perinatology, and Child Health
  • Endocrinology, Diabetes and Metabolism
  • Endocrinology

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